Dont lower your standards

Do not let loneliness lower your standards.

This goes both ways for friendship and  Relationship
I've seen alot of people who are afraid of
Cutting off friends who are not worth it
All in  the  name of " Who am i gonna hang out with" or whose gonna text me to check if I'm okay"
Most of those people you call " Friends"
Only call you just to check  how much of a progress you're making in your life if whether that progress is better than theirs
Remember people want to you see you do better but not better than them
Most settle for the fake love all in fear of having a "dry phone"
So they rather have a dosen of messages flooding their phone all full of faces that pretend to love you but say something else when you're not looking.
Those people don't really care about you
Let them go
Sometimes we never get to meet new people because we walk around carrying old burdens on our shoulders
Letting Go , opens new doors for new people and new energy
Always remember someone you just met can have better intensions than someone you have known for  5 years
Its not about who you've known the longest but more about who walked into your life and made it better.

Also learn to always take time to figure out what you really want  out of a Relationship/ Friendship before hopping into a new one
Some might call it "wasting time" but knowing what you really want is very important

In a friendship we look for friends who will support our goals and spark a lil positivity but that positivity has to start with us
And don't ever feel like you being a good friend in most cases is a stupid move
People appreciate things from the people they love
They're some who will love you for what you have to offer and if that thing was to be gone tommorow  they wouldn't be around anymore
Always be good it will come back to you in unexpected ways even if it won't be through the same people you helped.

In a relationship we look for a love that is reciprocal  going both ways
Also loyalty,Respect and a secure feeling when you are with them
Someone who appreciates you and every inch of your body just the way you are
We've seen  alot of loyal people who were commited in a relationship so much they started neglecting their own friends and family even the activities they love  doing
Only to get cheated on
A relationship  whereby you are the only one who is making effort and all the sacrifices is not worth breaking yourself over whilst trying to be enough for someone who will never eventually see your worth
Like Mr alex pierre jeanty once said
"Love yourself enough to  not settle for good promises and bad behaviours"
For example some hold on to toxic relationships whereby they get ignored and they're constantly being put last
All in the promise that they'll get married someday but "its just not the right time"
When will the right time be ? 07h69? Right?
What we have to know is that someone' s loyalty and commited to us is just something we can't control
As Mr jay shetty said
"Once you decide to cheat on someone who was willing to do absolutely anything for you , you cheated yourself out of true loyalty"

In relationships they're some who will use you but always be greatful for the lessons they taught you they made you wiser  and you letting go was the best decision you've ever made even though you were afraid of being without them like i said dont let loneliness lower your standards 

The true is they've never been there it's how much you loved them that blinded you to overthinking the things they never did.
But don't let them turn you into what they are always  be loyal
In quoted words from "her by alex pierre jeanty"
"Guard your heart but do not make it a forbidden place for everyone they will be people who are worthy of entry"