🌷: Criticism

Criticism

- what is criticism?
the expression of disapproval of someone or something on the basis of perceived faults or mistakes


That is how the dictionary explains it .


Well i say criticism  can be divided into 2
Which is positive criticism and negative criticism 

- What is the difference between Negative criticism and positive criticism

Positive criticism 

E.g : "Wow! This is amazing but also try tackling it this way"

Positive criticism is mostly spoken to make you the best version of yourself it helps you improve yourself and carry out expectional work as an individual moving futher in your life, because then you would know what you will be doing wrong.

Negative criticism 

E.g : " You could never achieve that because you are not smart enough nor good enough "

Negative criticism mostly spoken just to "put you down" , to stop you from achieving your goals simply because they couldn't achieve them.

- How to deal with criticism 

Negative criticism 

Just hug the person and say atleast im better than you 

Because if someone feels the need to voice out their opinion which is even negative by the way  imagine all that energy and effort! They obviously feel threatened by you

And always remember just because they couldn't achieve certain things in life you also wont achieve them, it doesn't work like that,theres no comparison between the sun and the moon they shine at their own time 

Dont let people tell you its too early or its too late, Rome wasn't built in one day , the small things you do that you think dont even matter one day you'll see that they were parts of a puzzle that will fit perfectly together, it is the small steps that contribute to the greatest success 

The best project you'll ever work on is yourself.

Positive criticism 

Take well to positive criticism because it's only trying to build you and channel you into the right direction, positive criticism is in the manner it is spoken in , you can clearly see that person isn't trying to attack you but they just trying to help and dont always take criticism personally.

-How do you know as an individual whether you are passing out negative or positive criticism?

The manner in which you speak , Your tone, Your attitude and body language 

If you see that an individual is great at what they do, give compliments whenever necessary 

If you feel although they are great but if they just do this one slight thing they would become an unstoppable force try speaking to them politely whilst reminding them what they still did was wonderful because it is important to know the type of person they are before you approach them but being polite is always the way to go about it when you want to channel someone in the right path.  Avoid being harsh and discouraging comments like " i knew you werent going to do the right thing" it somehow puts down the person 's confidence.

☆: Be a step into shaping Greatness in the world and uplift others instead of breaking them.